Sexually Transmitted Disease
Dear Roxanna,
I Am A Newbie and just want to know I keep to the basic guidline for the prevention of STD's but I like Kissing. I went to a lady and we kissed. Is that a big Problem or not. pappashark

Dear pappashark
STDs can be transmitted orally and there is no surefire way of telling if herpes is present or not. Once you have herpes, the virus stays in your body and, during times of stress or illness, re-occurrence of the symptoms may be evident.

 

Oh the guilt!
Dear Roxanna,
I love sex, just can't stop thinking about it only one problem I am married and the problem is I love having sex with different girls. All these girls on SEXTRADER but I feel too guilty. Is it bad? I am horny 24/7. sexmonster

Dear sexmonster
If you feel this guilt needs to be resolved, you will have to consult a professional counsellor. I would say that being married with this problem might need the assistance of a counsellor. Medical aid pays for the appointments.

 

Eat more
Dear Roxanna,
Is there anything a man should eat or take to increase the production of sperm or the fluid that carries it for increase sexual activity. eatsushi

Dear eatsushi
Yes, the usual rules apply: Get lots of exercise, drink plenty of water and enjoy a balanced diet which contains the following: Lamb, turkey, barley, oysters, beans, nuts, red meat (keep this to a minimum), pumpkin seeds, oily fish and oysters. Vitamins C, E, B12, Asparagus, beetroot, broccoli, beans, citrus fruits, other "leafy green" vegetables, Brazil nuts, cottage cheese, tomatoes, pink grapefruit, guava. Spinach, seaweed (spirulina or kelp), poultry, sesame seeds, tuna, egg whites.

 

Ask and ye shall receive
Dear Roxanna,
I'm a shy guy and have never been to see a professional lady before. I don't want to go to a place where there are lots of girls and customers. How do I know which girls are working from a private place where there will be no other people? like it

Dear like it
When you make the call to the girl you like, ask her if she is part of a house or if she has a private place. Once you have established that she is in a private house tell her that when you get there you do not want anybody to see her and you will give her a call when you are outside the gate.

 

Orally speaking
Dear Roxanna,
Dear Roxanna I really enjoy giving oral sex and it is probably my greatest fantasy. I understand there are potential health issues pertaining to this. Please could you provide more information on the level of risk, any pointers on what to look for before diving in and give any alternatives to make the practise safe? Poseidon

Dear Poseidon
Unprotected sex of any kind is potentially dangerous. So technically, there is no way to protect yourself during oral sex on a woman. There's also no real way of telling what's up down there before diving in. Look out for discharge of various kinds - pussy yellow or green discharge or milky discharge can all be pointers to STDs. Also look out for cold sores on her mouth and corners of her nose.

 

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